Do you wake up to light?I am thinking there should be some way to rig up the lights to turn on based on alarms. I can imagine if you got one that was very bright – the kind that have a clamp – and then angled it straight into your face, that might help a bit?
We have struggled with the same problem and ultimately for us, getting some sleep was the only solution . Once Colin started sleeping through the night I started waking up to the alarms again. We are also doing shifts on some nights so that I go to sleep really early (like, really early, sometimes 8:30pm) and then my husband goes to sleep around 1am, and so I have an easier time getting up to alarms at night between 1am and 5am.
But I would love if @Chris can figure out this setup because it would be hugely helpful on those nights when I am just so sleep deprived I snooze through hours of alarms.