Pretty recent 
Really sorry he joined the club. I know how stressful it must be for you and your wife.
Recently, I posted about my son’s first diaversary, and expressed how much focus I felt was needed. @britt_j pointed out how differently I will feel in a few years. I know I am a lot more accepting, if accepting is the word, than I was 6 months or a year ago. I still hate this sickness with a passion, but I am now able to express that by fighting it in a better manner, rather than reacting emotionally to it: less emotional and more reasoned.
Hang in there, in @Chris’ words.