# Tu, have you no shame?

**URL:** <https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427>\
**Category:** Share\
**Created:** [July 17, 2017, 7:06pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427 "2017-07-17T19:06:51Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 16\
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**Author:** ![jag1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ed655f/32.png) [@jag1](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/jag1)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2017, 7:06pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/1 "2017-07-17T19:06:51Z")

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So Tu (or actually thin-skinned eyebrow guy) threw me off several years ago, and I’ve never gone back. If they don’t want me, then I sure as hell don’t want them. But I just got an email from them - and guess what? It was an ad for a diabetic subscription program - they sold my email address to a third party advertiser!! I guess I’m too dangerous to post there, but they are more than happy to make a buck off of selling my email address. Disgusting.

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**Author:** ![Sam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/sam/32/10595_2.png) [@Sam](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Sam)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2017, 7:17pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/2 "2017-07-17T19:17:29Z")

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Lol I just got the same one.

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**Author:** ![ClaudnDaye](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/claudndaye/32/5_2.png) [@ClaudnDaye](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/ClaudnDaye)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2017, 10:15pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/3 "2017-07-17T22:15:33Z")

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I also received it. I’m guessing we all did.

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**Author:** ![Sam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/sam/32/10595_2.png) [@Sam](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Sam)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2017, 11:17pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/5 "2017-07-17T23:17:40Z")

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Cut them some slack, it seems that all their donors bailed on them after they banned me… so they’re probably really hurting for money. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

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**Author:** ![Chris](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/chris/32/382_2.png) [@Chris](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Chris)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2017, 12:20am UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/6 "2017-07-18T00:20:18Z")

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True, but I was not happy to receive an advertisement, I will look today but I hope there is way to opt out.

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**Author:** ![Chris](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/chris/32/382_2.png) [@Chris](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Chris)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2017, 12:23am UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/7 "2017-07-18T00:23:02Z")

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So now I am more pissed. I was not subscribed to their Fundraising communications and they sent it anyway. uugh

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**Author:** ![Chris](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/chris/32/382_2.png) [@Chris](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Chris)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2017, 12:40am UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/8 "2017-07-18T00:40:25Z")

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Well I got unsubscribed, but it required admin intervention. Hopefully I don’t receive any more communications that aren’t allowed in my preferences. Interestingly, they killed the topic that I responded to. Poof, it never happened.

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**Author:** ![Sam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/sam/32/10595_2.png) [@Sam](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Sam)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2017, 12:47am UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/9 "2017-07-18T00:47:48Z")

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What did you say? I have the entire email in my inbox, even though I’m in exile. I’ll cut and paste the whole thing into a new thread here so we can continue the discussion.

Actually just looked it’d be too goofy to cut and paste the email here. If anyone has he post URL from the other site that they hid we can reopen it for discussion here.

We don’t have discussions and members disappearing under cover of darkness here.

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**Author:** ![Chris](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/chris/32/382_2.png) [@Chris](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Chris)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2017, 12:51am UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/10 "2017-07-18T00:51:07Z")

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I have the whole email, they killed the TU thread where I brought up the fact that my preferences don’t allow that type of communication, and I then got an admin message telling me I had been extra unsubscribed to newsletters and shouldn’t receive any more. Then they killed the thread where people complained. Now that I can be linked to my TU thread, I expect the hand of death any day.

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**Author:** ![Sam](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/sam/32/10595_2.png) [@Sam](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Sam)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2017, 12:53am UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/11 "2017-07-18T00:53:20Z")

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I found the URL. Discussion continues here. They’re welcome to join but they can’t silence people here

(Can someone link to new post)

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**Author:** ![jag1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ed655f/32.png) [@jag1](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/jag1)\
**Post date:** [July 19, 2017, 4:35pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/12 "2017-07-19T16:35:04Z")

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> [@Chris](#):
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> I have the whole email, they killed the TU thread where I brought up the fact that my preferences don’t allow that type of communication, and I then got an admin message telling me I had been extra unsubscribed to newsletters and shouldn’t receive any more. Then they killed the thread where people complained. Now that I can be linked to my TU thread, I expect the hand of death any day.

Works for you, but for those of us who don’t have accounts any more (thanks to the out of control head admin over there), we have no ability to log into our accounts to change preferences to stop anything. So I assume I will continue to get spam for as long as they are able to sell my email address. Hopefully not too much longer 🙂

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**Author:** ![Chris](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/chris/32/382_2.png) [@Chris](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Chris)\
**Post date:** [July 19, 2017, 4:50pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/13 "2017-07-19T16:50:45Z")

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Yes, it really is a untenable situation they have created. And they are acting like it is no big deal. But trust is a big deal, and you should have the ability to opt out. Otherwise it is spam.

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**Author:** ![Outlier2017](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/f19dbf/32.png) [@Outlier2017](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Outlier2017)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 8:16pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/14 "2017-07-25T20:16:38Z")

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I commented on a long post on TU a while back that was almost unintelligible, ungrammatical, and disorganized. I said that it would be interesting and possibly useful if it were coherent. The complaints flooded in and the post was removed.

They can be politically correct and strive not to offend anyone. I’d rather be accurate. Each to his own.

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**Author:** ![Eric](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/eric/32/9209_2.png) [@Eric](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Eric)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 8:22pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/15 "2017-07-25T20:22:56Z")

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Can you share it? Is it totally gone?

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**Author:** ![Outlier2017](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/f19dbf/32.png) [@Outlier2017](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Outlier2017)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 9:02pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/16 "2017-07-25T21:02:45Z")

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i’ll check. You or another member invited me to fud after I commented on a  
completely depressing. Tu post. Im glad others have similar attitudes.

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**Author:** ![Eric](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex030/user_avatar/forum.fudiabetes.org/eric/32/9209_2.png) [@Eric](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/u/Eric)\
**Post date:** [July 25, 2017, 9:09pm UTC](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/tu-have-you-no-shame/1427/17 "2017-07-25T21:09:06Z")

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> [@Outlier2017](#):
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> i’ll check. You or another member invited me to fud after I commented on a
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> completely depressing. Tu post. Im glad others have similar attitudes.

Oh, yep that was me. I saw that thread last night and had the same reaction that you did. I didn’t recognize your new username.

Welcome here!

Post on the introduction page and everyone can get to know you:

> [@Welcome, introduce yourself here!](https://forum.fudiabetes.org/t/welcome-introduce-yourself-here/145):
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> Hello, welcome to FUDiabetes (For Unlimited Diabetes). We’re happy to have you here and look forward to sharing, learning, and exploring all things diabetes together. I’m Sam, formerly known as Sam19. I live in Alaska with my wife and 2 young children. I was diagnosed with T1 unexpectedly at age 29. I currently manage with tresiba, novolog MDI, and Afrezza. I use a dexcom G5 cgm intermittently. Nice to meet you all.
