I don’t now how you answer that question, “I will always have this?". But one thing you can tell him with all honesty, is that no matter how long he has it, every year he has it, the disease will get smaller and smaller. And eventually it becomes so small it no longer matters.
In everything I do in my life, diabetes is always way down on my list of things to think about. It becomes automatic, no longer anything to be conscience about. Just like you don’t have to remind yourself to blink or breath or tell your heart to beat. If you work it right, it just becomes automatic.
Right now it’s formulas and calculations. And that is all you can do as a parent at this stage.
But eventually for him, it can become instinctive. And that is a much easier way to live. When he is ready, lead him in that direction.
I think that’s a good thing to tell him, no matter how long he has the disease.